Truly speaking, it takes a woman who is happy in her marriage to do that. It takes a woman who knows her husband doesn’t cheat on her but he rather loves her and provides for her and her children.
A woman who has been downtrodden, relegated to the backyard cannot do this.
Some men might start using her to give example in Nigeria anytime they have issues. But before you do that make sure you are a loving husband. Women are not playing anymore.